Got your post on my wire - of course that's up to you, but in the end, if you feel you are in the right, and I'm not taking sides here, then why run? You only give your detractors what they want in that case.
You are absolutely right to bring this to our attention and to contact us if there is any behavior on the site that you feel is threatening. We have looked into the matter and read both sides of the story. I don't think ScottyCDL meant to cause any offense, but at the same time an insensitive remark was made which is why the posts have been deleted. We look into everything fairly and objectively, and we think there was a misunderstanding at the root of this.
Knowing that this was a misunderstanding i hope that you can both move on and put this behind you. If there's ever anything you want to bring to my attention, give me a shout on firstname.lastname@example.org